Loyalty- the quality or state or an instance of being loyal
synonym see FIDELITY
Loyal- 1 : unswerving in allegiance: as a : faithful in allegiance to one's lawful sovereign or government b : faithful to a private person to whom fidelity is due c : faithful to a cause, ideal, custom, institution, or product
2 : showing loyalty
3 : obsolete : LAWFUL, LEGITIMATE
synonym see FAITHFUL
Why do men cheat? This all too familiar question is the main staple of the mind numbing talk show t.v. circuit. It is the gas that fuels thousands of relationship and personal self help books. All of these venues claiming to offer a quick fix solution as to why men sow thier royal oats with various women. Well if you are accustomed to such fluff and childish excuse for adult solutions, then this explanation on the third stage of love for men will most certainly HURT your feelings. The following explanation can be backed up by tons of facts and I by all means welcome the reader to challenge, rant, rave and fight tooth and nail to oppose the following view. So please clear your mind and read real carefully on arguably the worst problem facing relationships in America. LOYALTY.
The previous introduction was very necessary because in order to understand the depths of infedility, both MEN and especially WOMEN have to dig real deep into the core of our consciousness that serves as "HOME BASE" for all information and beliefs that direct our BEING. To understand why MEN "cheat" is definitely the wrong question to ask; and taking an approach with this question in mind will only lead the seeker of this question to chasing thier tales. Whether then bombard you with countless statisics and examples, I will simply proceed on giving an overlay as to the current state of affairs that is relationships.
Why do men cheat? First of all men do not cheat. Cheating implies that we(MEN AND WOMEN) are playing some sort of game. If both partners in a relationship are serious then nobody is playing any games. To understand MENS approach towards women you have to explore the deepest parts of their mind. If we all want to get out of the crisis that is American relationships then I am sorry but we are going to have to get SCIENTIFIC. To put it in a language that you can understand; the solution to your infedility problems with men IS IN THE GENES STUPID. Not those bugle boys or expensive VERSACE JEANS, but those genes your parents gave you. If you want to understand why men must have loads of women and seem to process committment and loyalty much different then you ladies then you have to explore the entire makeup of what we call THE HUMAN MALE. The chemicals that flow through, the body parts that men are endowed with and the way in which the chemicals and body parts function largely influence the way men think and feel. If you feel that this is way too much to deal with to solve infedility then I say to you enjoy your increasing divorce rates. Enjoy your ever increasing woman to man ratio(check the census to see how many more women exist then men). And also enjoy being single and lonely while you continue to tell yourself that you don't need a man and you are happy with your career. However if you are a woman that has some sense and has tried EVERYTHING, then sit back and enjoy this exploration into the mind of men and what makes them tick. SEE PART TWO for the continuation of The third stage of love for men: LOYALTY.